Do you get mad if someone puts something out there? Does it hit home, strike a nerve? Don’t be so self absorbed to think that the world revolves around you. You are only special to you. Until you treat people with the same respect that you demand don’t expect things to change. Life is full of disappointments and hurt and pain. We all have demons that keep us from being the person that we are meant to be. So when someone finally defeats theirs and moves on past the pettiness of bad relationships don’t be angry at them be angry with yourself, you still have the chance to be a better you. Learn to grow a pair and crush your own demons. No one can fight your fight it’s up to you. So if your feelings get hurt along the way then take a look at yourself and ask why did this happen. Take a look at how you treat people, are you a true friend or did you use them to achieve the goals you have in life. Was it worth ruining a bond or a relationship?
If it was then yay for you but don’t expect that person to wait around because they will learn their self worth with or without you. So grow yourself to be the kind of person that shines and makes others honored to be around you. Don’t use them to gain ground because that’s not solid ground and will be lost. Never use someone, but be true to yourself and if that means being alone then trust that that is where you are suppose to be at that time. True friends are hard to come by and if you do find one make sure that there is mutual respect, trust and take care that you don’t let something or someone take that away. Enjoy your time spent among family and true friends it is never is enough.
As always these are my opinions and mine alone.