Are you leader or a follower? I think sometimes we end up being both, and I think that can be a good thing. You should constantly learn from your experiences, we all make mistakes and should always learn from the results. Life gives us ups and downs and we are given the choices of what to do with those. Do we learn or do we settle in and just accept the fate, NO learn, grow and move the freak on. Don’t give up ever, don’t settle for anything less that what you deserve. Turn that negative in to a positive, no matter how small it might be. Keep your head held high, but don’t stick your nose in the air, don’t be conceited, be fair, be loyal, and be kind. Think before you speak. Be unique, be different, you might get looked at a little funny, but be who you are meant to be. Be bold and defiant when you believe in something, and always believe, take up for the underdog, respect others the way you want them to respect you, treat others as you wish to be treated, and no you won’t always be treated nice and respectfully, but keep your chin up, tomorrow is a brand new day.
Encourage those who need it, be a good friend, tell the people you love that you love them. Spend time with someone to spend time with them, not out of obligation do it because you want to or you’ll end up resenting the time spent and the person you are with.
Take every opportunity to better yourself, and don’t think that your taking a chance away from someone else, if its wanted by anyone, then they’ll work harder to accomplish it. We all have chances to improve ourselves, it’s up to you what you do with it. If you don’t try you will never know if you can achieve your dreams, and dream BIG cause you are worth it. Strive to become the person that is within you, keep hammering at the shell, because it’s about to break wide open.
This is my opinion and mine alone.